You Know You’re Growing The Fuck Up When…

Alden Tan
1 min readSep 28, 2022
  • You realize people who take drugs are not necessarily bad people.
  • You find out your parents’ generation is also rife with infidelity.
  • You know you need to stop being friends with that best friend of yours any longer.
  • You just don’t feel like showing up anymore.
  • You realize your mother is not always right and you need to be firm with her or even hurt her feelings.
  • Then you realize maybe she was right all along. You just couldn’t see it.
  • You decided that it’s time to stand up for yourself…
  • … or realize doing so is not even worth it. Just ghost. It’s rude, kind of, but it doesn’t matter anymore.
  • You realize the right choice is to simply stop being nice to your friends anymore.
  • You realize that there are indeed stupid questions and you find it insulting when someone has the audacity to ask you something stupid.
  • You discover how important your mental health is. Doesn’t fucking matter anymore if others don’t get it.

originally posted here on www.onedudelistening.com

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