Why I Stopped Writing Like A Typical Self-Help Blogger

  • I stopped giving a fuck.
  • No, really. The two forces that are “I really wanna help people” and “I want to make a living out of this” clash really badly to the point it’s hypocritical.
  • Yet, I’ve learnt that any real artist and entrepreneur would recognize that finding the balance between the two is how you actually can succeed as both artist and





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