just …hat specific person,” says Rachel Sussman, a couples counselor and licensed clinical social worker. “That’s the whole point of going on a first date — to let things play out and see how they go. But you should have an idea of what you’re looking for in general before you join Tinder or ask someone for their number.” In other words, if you don’t know whether you want a relationship or just a friends-with-benefits s…
This is the folly of people when it comes to modern dating these days.
Modern dating = dating apps, hence starting with mere texting only.
The first date to me is extremely important because it allows us to see if we have chemistry and that means being physically close.
It’s a major turn off to me when people start to act all self-entitled. I don’t mean a girl making demands before meeting. I refer to how she thinks she gets to get upset with me over mere texting.
It’s not like I am intentionally hostile or sending dick pics. And yet, they get upset over stupid shit like not replying on time or over a harmless joke.
All of this, even before meeting face to face.
Sorry, you’re not entitled to feel anything over mere texts. The minute I feel uncomfortable over texting you and I have to watch what I type, it’s the ultimate deal breaker.
Just my 2 cents.