Necessary Narcissism

There is something called healthy narcissism, a balance between nurturing one’s self-esteem and also cultivating healthy relationships.

But before that, I like to think that there’s something called necessary narcissism, a difficult phase grownups need to go through in order to grow and be happy.

In this phase, you:

  • Reject anything familiar and comfortable.




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