It’s like suddenly, you realize you get to be okay

Every time I went through a breakup, or got my heart broken by some girl, the point I always got better is when I realize I get to do my own shit at great convenience.

It was like, “Hey, I don’t need to pause my video game to reply her texts anymore.”

“I don’t need to keep paying attention to my phone during this movie to reply her text.”

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