I’ve never lost a child, but I lost my dad.

To be frank, I always had this idea that failed pregnancies would at least make you think, “Oh at least it’s not the loss of a child whom you’ve fallen in love with after many years.”

But a loss is still a loss, and it can hit us hard at the most unpredictable times.

Thanks for the reminder Chase.


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