Alden Tan
1 min readJun 4, 2018


I agree.

I ghost people and old friends outside of the dating realm because… I just don’t wanna give a shit anymore.

I think we all give a shit only because others say we should, when we deep down, we don’t. That doesn’t work for your well-being.

Doesn’t matter if it’s birthday party, wedding, baby shower or whatever. I’ll ghost if it’s not important.

And frankly, if someone has a problem with that, then I guess they aren’t my friend at all for they don’t care enough to want to know why I do what I do.

It sounds rather selfish, but listening to others your whole life only isn’t a healthy life.