I was talking to a friend the other day and she was lamenting how she can’t seem to attract the right guy. She was also afraid of being alone.

And more often than not, we try to solve this problem the wrong way. We deny that being alone can be a good thing.

This is what you need to do: Just be fuck the alone.

1) When you’re being alone, you start giving a shit about yourself

2) When you’re being alone, you start becoming more confident

3) When you’re being alone, people will recognize your growth and evolution

People want to be near that! Why? Because believe it or not, most of us are not happy. Most of us are lonely.

We aren’t used to being alone.

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