Accidents, Stigmas And The Truth

I was talking to a friend a few weeks ago. He told me that he and wife were expecting their third child.

And then he added, “This was basically an accident.”

The casual tone in his voice. The flippant nature of the conversation.

Not something you’d expect out of a parent, or a parent-to-be. I am neither myself, but if I find out that I am going to be a…




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