let it go and bliss the f out!

9 Things You Get To Be Offended By, But You Should Really Let It Go Anyway

let go and bliss out

1) When you’re usually the one to text first

If you overthink it, it feels like your friends don’t care enough to want to know what’s up with you. And sure enough, when you stop texting first, there literally is zero communication, something to get offended by yeah?

If you don’t, it’s whatever.

Some friendships are strong despite the lack of communication. Some aren’t.

Choose wisely I guess. You don’t need to be upset over this.

2) When your friends are always too busy

Because everyone is busy today.

I personally think that a true friend will realize that they get to be busy anytime they want for the rest of their life and so will break free from it to make time for you.

If they do, that’s awesome. If not, well, it sucks. Don’t harp on it. Just move on to the next friend. Otherwise, everyone around you is gonna piss you off.

3) When your friends create social media drama and drag you in

Fuck that.

Only losers who lack self-preservation seek validation via drama online.

Only weak people get offended by it.

Just stay out of it. It’s your best option.

4) When your friends are cheating

As sad as it sounds, infidelity is extremely common today. Even the sacred union that is marriage don’t mean a thing to some.

It’s disgusting. It’s downright disturbing in fact.

But to be offended by this would honestly mean losing a lot of friends.

Ultimately, realize that it’s their affair. Focus on your own relationship.

5) When your mom nags incessantly

Because all moms do that.

It’s whatever. They mean well anyway. Mostly.

6) When there’s a piece of disturbing news or disgusting, viral video online

Don’t read it. Don’t watch it.

It’s just not healthy.

7) When that stranger bumps into you, doesn’t apologize and gives you that ugly look

Everybody is pissed off, if you think about it.

Let it go. Move on and be happy yourself.

8) When the customer service staff is kind of rude

They just hate their jobs.

They just hate themselves.

Take your business elsewhere.

9) When everything fucks up

It’s not bad karma.

It’s not the state of the world.

It’s not bad people.

It’s not your fault.

It’s just a bad day.

Chill. Go home. Go back to sleep.

Tomorrow will be better.

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