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20 Secrets To Become Super Likeable Today

Alden Tan
3 min readOct 31, 2018
  1. Never try too hard. People can tell when you try too hard. That is a major turn off. People would think you’re clingy, desperate and annoying.
  2. Look good. Face it. People are judgmental creatures. This ain’t about attraction as in in the realm of dating and relationships. This is about looking presentable so people would want to like you in the first place. So do what it takes. Get new clothes. Trim your hair. Workout.
  3. Smell good. Nobody wants to be near a smelly piece of shit. Do what it takes to smell good. Go to a doctor if you have to. Don’t show up sweaty.
  4. Speak well. If you sound too intimidating people may be turned off. If you speak too softly, it may come across as annoying. Learn to speak well to avoid misunderstandings.
  5. Smile. Nobody likes an ugly, pissed off face. People will judge that.
  6. LISTEN. You can’t be the one talking all the time and dominating the conversation. That’s called being self-centered.
  7. Have your manners. Say your ‘Please’s and ‘Thank you’s and you’re good. This sounds basic, but not many people got it down pat.
  8. Don’t lie. Nothing else needs to be said here, besides that people will find out the truth. You can’t get away with shit like that.
  9. Don’t cross boundaries and

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