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19 signs you’re totally dating the wrong person altogether

Alden Tan
6 min readMay 25, 2018

You know that feeling, that moment, when you look back into your past relationships and you’re like, “Wow. I can’t believe I was with her!”? I exclaimed that many times. I was dating the wrong person!

Have you ever felt like you were dating the wrong person in your life? Time wasted huh?

I’ve thought of that many times before about my exes. And I’m sure they must feel the same way. It’s like we looked for each other for the wrong reasons or suffered some bad karma.

That’s the power of hindsight. It makes you wonder why you do stupid shit in the past. It makes you cringe, laugh and make that face when you take a hard shit. It’s bad. And the thing is, the signs back then were always so obvious. But you mostly stuck to it because you were in love, or so you told yourself.

Time to take those obviousness seriously.

19 signs you’re totally dating the wrong person altogether

1) They swear at you openly

Happened to me before. It wasn’t like we had this repertoire going on where we could swear at each other for fun. It was done out of irritation, frustration, anger and dare I say, pure hate. A girlfriend…

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